Christmas is here, and the streets and alleys are full of Christmas atmosphere when you go out.
Every Christmas, caring parents always buy toys for their children. After all, holiday gifts are indispensable. So all year round, toys are piled up all over the house. Once they do n’t buy them, the children throw their tempers.
It is important to give children material satisfaction at Christmas, but more important is to give them nourishment. So instead of buying gifts for your child, give them these things. 01 Full sense of ceremony
Many parents feel that buying toys for their children is not a sense of ceremony?
In fact, the sense of ceremony is not just a simple gift, but also to make children feel the surprise in ordinary life, so that children remember these moments full of love.
Last Christmas, Dudu father dressed up as Santa Claus carefully, attended the school Christmas ball, and handed the Christmas gift to the baby girl. At that moment, the child felt that she was the happiest child in the world.
Dudu parents have always paid attention to the ritual sense of their children. Every Christmas, they carefully prepare gifts for children, and attach a letter of "Santa" to tell the children that this is a blessing from Santa. .
So every Christmas, Dudu looks forward to Santa ’s letter, and even tells her mother that she wants to write back to Santa to express her gratitude.
Sooner or later, the child will know that Santa is fake, but these full rituals give her happiness, and she will remember it for a lifetime.
Do n’t hesitate to give your child a sense of ritual. Doing or not doing these little rituals seems to be nothing to parents, but the happiness that children feel is completely different.
While Christmas, give your children a sense of ritual. 02 Attentive company
The advent of Christmas also means that 2019 is coming to an end. In retrospect, how busy are you with your children this year?
In the past year, the most time I spent with my children every day was probably to help them with their homework.
Recalling the experience of tutoring children for homework every night, how many times have we almost couldn't resist hitting children? How many times have we coached to lose patience and lose temper with them? We may still hate children countless times in our hearts, why are we so stupid?
Throughout the year, there are only a handful of patients who have been patient and gentle with their homework.
Not to mention that sometimes the work is tired, the child said to play with me for a while, we just perfunctory: "Don't be noisy, play while you go."
Sometimes when I am busy with work, I promised the child's amusement park and aquarium to push it again and again, but the child's grievances did not dare to say ...
We were so busy that the child's childhood passed. The absence of our companionship, when we grow up, has become the generation gap and distance between us and our children, and it has become a regret that we can't make up for in our lives.
So, this Christmas, go home early and stay with your children.
Preparing dinner with your child, maybe you will find your child's cooking talents; accompany your child to dismantle your carefully prepared gifts, and play the game with your child with all your heart ... As long as you stay with your child, it is the best gift for your child. 03 Open Eyes
The way to spend the holiday with the child often reflects the vision of the parents.
It's also Christmas. Some parents only buy toys for their children, but some parents tell their children the origin of Christmas.
In the strong commercial atmosphere year by year, many children's understanding of Christmas seems to be limited to Santa Claus giving gifts, but they do not know the origin and significance of these holidays.
If we tell the child the origin of Christmas and stimulate the child's interest, he will want to understand the story behind every detail of Christmas. Where did Santa come from? Why does Santa use socks for gifts? How do other countries spend Christmas?
Stimulates the child's curiosity and ignites the child's curiosity.
Parents with financial conditions will even take their children to various countries to experience Christmas and learn about the culture and customs of Christmas in different countries. In this way, children will not only grow their knowledge but also their insights. The future view of the world will not be limited to books.
Of course, not every family has economic conditions to experience Christmas abroad, but economic conditions do not prevent parents from broadening their children's horizons.
Many parents choose to report their children's oral classes in Akaso, while learning English, while following the foreign teachers to understand Western culture and customs, not to go abroad, but also increase their knowledge.
Give this child a different gift this Christmas!