When everyone is unhappy in life, they always think that they should work harder, and the road ahead will be easier, but the facts tell us that some difficulties are really difficult to get rid of.
Especially for people who have reached middle age, many things are hard to reach even if they work hard. Indeed, life after entering middle age is very different from the past. In my eyes, Aunt Xiao Cui has always been a very motivated person and can be called a strong woman.
Aunt Xiao Cui is a doctor. Her marriage is also very happy. When she was young, she would go out to study whenever she had the opportunity.
But now she doesn't have such a bloody feeling of surging, not because she is not motivated, but because she feels that after middle age, it is more important not to be successful but to family.
As the saying goes, thirty stands, forty does not confuse, fifty knows destiny, and in middle age is an age group that knows destiny.
What should be done at this time is to enjoy and feel the beauty of life. If you continue to struggle in obsession, you will only make yourself more and more painful.
Therefore, when people reach middle age, letting things go will make them easier and make their lives happier.
Just like Aunt Xiao Cui, when she was young, she let herself go and strived for a better life. When she was middle-aged, she stopped to enjoy and feel the beauty of life.
After all, when people are young, their passionate mindset will encourage them to pursue fame and profit, and can't wait to prove their abilities, but after middle age, these things will become clouds.
Because at this age, even the more you pursue is meaningless, and even the more you pursue, the more depressed life becomes.
Rather than letting myself live in a depressing environment, it is better to choose to let go and make yourself more secure in the future.
What's more, when young, many people didn't know that simplicity was happiness. They blindly pursued happiness in the distance, but ignored the happiness in front of them. After middle age, I realized that true happiness is to be good to each other and accompany each other.
In this case, when people reach middle age, they will learn to let go of their fame and wealth, and life will be extremely comfortable. From this comfort, you can feel real happiness. Therefore, those middle-aged people who do not know what happiness is, learn To cherish the moment is to seize the opportunity of happiness.
Many people put the word of long history in their mouths, but never thought that their past is history. I always advocate the phrase: "The past is history, so you don't need to investigate it anymore."
Each of us has a story. Maybe when I was young, I made mistakes because of carelessness, and in my middle age, I still felt so worried that my life was always anxious.
Rather than choosing to let go of the past and give yourself some room to look to the future, life will be very meaningful.
Perhaps when we were young, we were all living for the ideals of others, but after middle age, we were still not satisfied with the arrangements of others, and always regretted that we had not survived according to our wishes.
Such complaints and regrets are meaningless. Instead of immersing in the past regrets, it is better to choose to welcome the future life a bit and let the rest of your life do what you want.
No matter what age, you can't get rid of the word "love". When you are young, you can fight for love, but after middle age, there is no such passion.
After middle age, everyone must know that letting go of the past is the best way to reconcile, because only in this way can you let go of your inner mind, and do n’t be too entangled with things that are not related to yourself, otherwise life will get worse.
Therefore, no matter what age you are, you must face life with a positive attitude, learn to cherish the beauty in front of you, be irresponsible for the past, look forward to the future, and spend the rest of your life in a down-to-earth way. Into the circle of happiness.
In short, after middle age, we must learn to let go of the pursuit of fame and fortune, let go of the past, let go of the "love" that is not ours, let go of right and wrong, learn to deal with everything in an open-minded manner, and live in the future. Not so depressed.